This is the first in a series of posts contributed by former Paterson students who want to share the wisdom they have gained since graduation.
Responsibility Begins Now
by Juan Cordero, Jr.
This is coming from my
heart, so listen when I tell you this: don't screw up like I did.
An education is a terrible thing to waste. Yes, that is one of the cheesier
lines that you will hear many times throughout your young life, but I can vouch
for it being one of the most legitimate things that was ever told to me. It is
really not that hard to see what an education can do for you. No one is lying
to you when they say that you need one; the probability of you succeeding in
life without a good education will never be that good, unless you are already
well off by some other means. Most of us, frankly, are
not.
In high school, I never took things seriously. High school was a physical and
emotional playground for me, when it should have been a mental one as well if
that makes any sense. I spent most of my time trying to impress my friends that
I would meet and spend a good four years with instead of doing my homework and
handing in my class projects on time. Many of my teachers would get frustrated
when I did not hand in my work due to my laziness, because they knew that I was
better than that. They knew it, heck I knew it, but I just did not commit. I
put more effort into writing silly poems and "songs" instead of
improving my terrible algebra and science grades.
When Senior year rolled around, I was still in the same mess that I was in
since the beginning. My laziness had always stuck with me, and it caused me
great problems when it came to looking toward the future. Teachers had pushed
me to apply for many different colleges, but in the end it was my lack of effort
that ended up pushing them away from me. When it was time to start preparing
for graduation, I realized that unlike most of my classmates... I had no
future. I did not get accepted to Montclair State University or Rutgers or even
Passaic County Community College, because they were all out my reach. I did not
know what I wanted to do with myself, and I did not even try to find out.
I barely graduated from my high school (I believe it was because of one teacher
that I even passed at all) and when I graduated, it was the end of the road for
me. I would have to find a regular job and deal with life that way. Going back
to school did not really cross my mind until my best friend (then girlfriend)
convinced me to finally go to Passaic County Community College. It took
me three years to think about what I wanted to do, but I finally got there and
I have not looked back since. Three years. Those
three years of thinking about what you want to do should be during
high school, not afterwards.
Don't be like me. You have great teachers to help and guide you to a place that
you will want to eventually be. While I feel that I am on a good path right
now, I feel this path would have worked out even better for me if I had decided
to take it earlier. Right now you have countless resources at your disposal to
help you, so why waste them over petty things? I realize that being a teenager
is a fun and exciting time in your life, but being a teen will only last for so
long. What will you do afterwards? You will need to learn how to be responsible
for your life out in the real world, and that has to start now. Yes it is
cheesy, but remember: an education is a terrible thing to waste.
